When you live like you don’t care about the expected lifestyle or what other people think, you’ll stand out. It’s lonely, and easily misunderstood by most people.
Thus, always remember them who are always with you through your easy and difficult times.
Do they take advantage of your easy life?
Do they stay away from you when you’re in a difficulty?
Do they treat you the same when you’re in a high position or stripped off from your privileges in life?
I think, one doesn’t need to know people very long to determine their characters, but after 2 years you’ll get through all seasons twice and know a person better.
After 5 years, you’ll realize how they’re important to you or not.
After 8+ years, if you’re still keep in touch on a regular basis, you will miss them when they’re away and you know you’ve found a best friend. #weekendthoughts
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I have recently started riding my bicycle within 5 km distance to save time, money and get fitter. Needless to say, I quickly found my childhood joy of cycling! (even though I often got trapped in the middle of heavy polluted and congested traffic or got teased by male passersby. GRR!)
Spent absolutely Rp 0 for 3 roundtrips to the gym and grocery stores a week (which usually spent on Uber/ Gojek + multiple tiring phone calls to the drivers). I could reach 2 km distance in 10-15 mins (after finding nice shortcuts), in comparison to 30 mins waiting + travel time if I use Uber/Gojek. The downsides are I have to shower as soon as I reach a destination (cuz this is NOT a 4-season country like Italy), and run my washing machine more often.
“I noticed that I was spending huge money on things I didn’t really need: trips to the bar, pretty clothes, takeout coffee, and so on. And all this with a mortgage and other big expenses to take care of,” said the girl in the article.
Yass, I agree. Apparently, I can live without (Doohh, of course, you can!) buying new clothes, fatty snacks, fancy meals or even cut my lifestyle spending by 90%.
Things I miss the most:
- Salon treatment (seriously, biweekly pedicure, hair spa, massage routine is nice)
- Traveling to a new country
- Mingle with friends in fancy cafes (I limit social meetups only with small circle of friends at a time)
Things I don’t miss at all:
- Buying new clothes, shoes & bags
- Eating out after work (I like cooking for myself, cuz I can listen to music & think about other stuff while preparing the meals)
- Hipster food & drinks (Rejuve, Kopipapi, Kokonut, Shilin, MisterPotato, etc)
- Starbucks (bought a coffee maker instead. One cup brewed from good coffee beans only costs like Rp 1,500)
Things I still hold on to:
- Investment & insurance
- Platinum gym membership (it’s almost like breaking off a long relationship with your gym buddies, teachers, etc. Plus, I still need the yoga classes & hot showers in strategic malls around the city)
- Netflix (reduced it to 1 screen viewing, but I still like to see their original shows & I have committed to eliminate piracy within the best of my ability)
- Books & digital storage purchases (paperback, ebook, cloud server)
I will slowly get back to my old routines once I get the right full-time job, but I think I’ve learned a lot through this frugal living experience and will continue to ride my bicycle for fun & health reason. After all, I’ve lost like 3 kilos within 2 weeks. Not bad at all.